Another Year Older…

Birthday Candles

It seems like shortly after writing a post with the words “my workload is about to ease” a tonne of new projects land on my lap! I’m not complaining of course - I like to keep myself busy - but my head seems to be throbbing more often than not…

I think I should be honest with you all though… I’ve spent the last couple of weeks seriously considering retiring from blogging. I just don’t seem to have the commitment or spare time to make this journal as successful as it once was.

Ironically it was my birthday today, meaning that it’s been a whole year since I blogged for the very first time. So much has changed in the last 12 months though - from testing positive for HD to the launch of Britster, and everything in between.

I guess the bottom line here is that I’m not really sure what to do with this blog. All I know is that I don’t intend to spend the next six months sporadically posting comeback messages - that’s just not fair to the people who take the time to visit! Perhaps I should buckle to pressure and monetise the site - maybe the promise of financial reward will help me focus? Or perhaps all it needs is a visual reboot..?

I need some opinions here… Have you ever considered dropping your blog? How do you keep your interest? What do you think I should do??

29 fantastic comments...

  1. MyAvatars 0.2

    Happy birthday! :)

    Yeah, I can relate to how you feel - I’ve been so overwhelmed with clients over the past few months that I haven’t had time to sit down and blog.

    I don’t think monetising the blog will be a good incentive; it might put pressure on you a little if you really needed any income it was generating, but then you’d end up feeling forced to blog when you don’t want to. Thats not really a good thing.

    I’ve also considered dropping my blog, and perhaps making the domain either a portfolio or some other actual website. The main thing that stops me however, is the visitors. I know my posts have been of use to a lot of people to date, and still get the sporadic comment on various posts appreciating the content. So, I decide to leave it all up there, to continue to help others.

    If you’re anything like me though, the design probably feels stale to you already - perhaps working on a site facelift will pique your inner blogger once more :)

  2. Leanne April 20, 2008 12:58 pm
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    Happy birthday, Paul!

    I couldn’t advise on what to do with your blog. If it’s not attached to your work, it’s tough to maintain that drive. I’ve dropped all of my other blogs when they took too much time away from my work and my work blog.

    Have a great day!

  3. David Airey April 20, 2008 5:26 pm
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    Another year closer to forced retirement, eh? ;)

    I can understand why motivation might wane, although for me it’s a little different. My blog is my business (more or less), so I know that publishing new articles is a marketing method.

    Why not monetize? You’ve been at this caper long enough to know the ropes, and if it helps keep you writing great articles, you get my vote.

  4. MyAvatars 0.2

    If your heart is not in it, no amount of money will make you want to post new articles. People are drawn to blogs usually because of the passion the writer has on his/her topic, and if that’s not there… of course, you now have to ask yourself the deep question: Why do you blog?

    If it’s to network, why not just keep up with everyone by commenting on other blogs you enjoy reading? But if you think monetizing is what will help you, then by all means! I would love to hear from you more often :)

    If you are still unsure, Dawud wrote an article just last week about Why You’ve Got To Quit To Be Successful. Take a look and see if it speaks to you.

  5. Paul April 22, 2008 1:15 pm
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    Thanks for the birthday wishes and comments!

    Damien: I certainly don’t want to get to the stage where I feel pressured to blog - that will be totally counter-productive! I know where you’re coming from with not wanting to drop your blog too - I get emails on a daily basis from visitors who’ve found something I’ve written useful or inspirational… Oh, and the design felt stale to me about three days after it went live - I guess that’s the price we designers all pay for being perfectionists!

    Leanne: My main aim for Reflections was simply to have a place to give my thoughts some sort of lasting substance. I realised quickly though that it was bringing in new work - which was great at the time. However, now I’m tied into various long-term projects I don’t need the work (and have in fact turned prospective clients away). Perhaps deep down I feel that having a personal blog may have served its purpose…

    David: Don’t know about forced retirement - I’m planning on being voluntarily retired by the time I hit 40! ;) I’m definitely given serious thought to the idea of monetising - perhaps that (along with a reboot) will get me back in the game?

  6. Aaron Russell April 22, 2008 3:27 pm
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    Hey Paul, good to hear from you again.

    I was going through similar thoughts at the start of this year as all I seemed to post was, “sorry i’m busy” and then “heyyyy - I’m back” type-posts. So I took an unconventional approach to resolving the issue of not having enough time to look after my one blog - I launched a new blog. So now I have two of the all-consuming bloody things!

    For the old blog, miLienzo.com, I’ve given it a couple of months to prove to me that it deserves to stay - and actually it gets quite good traffic these days and has high subscriber figures, despite the fact I hardly post. So I think ultimately I’ll give it a good redesign and bung a few ads in whilst I’m at it. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with … comercialisation (I don’t like the word monetization - I’m sure its not even a word) … as long as it’s done unobtrusively.

  7. Tara April 22, 2008 5:09 pm
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    Hi Paul, happy birthday for a couple of days ago. I know what you mean about the blogging, its heard to find new inspiration. Its hard not to repeat yourself. Like you say with new projects and work its all a juggling act. I think with most creative people our minds tend to wander here there and everywhere its hard to find time to explore all the ideas you want to.

  8. David Airey April 22, 2008 5:21 pm
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    Tara said: “…its hard to find time to explore all the ideas you want to.”

    Absolutely! With more time on my hands I’d have a battalion of websites. As it is, keeping up isn’t so straightforward, but the reader conversation makes up for any negatives.

  9. Paul April 24, 2008 1:01 pm
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    Lauren: Sorry for not replying sooner - Askimet got you! ;) My original reason for blogging was a selfish one, my blog serving only as a place to capture thoughts and memories. As time progressed it became a matter of self-promotion instead - but I’m not convinced that I need an outlet for either of these motives and longer. Thanks for that link - Dawud’s post is certainly food for thought!

    Aaron: I’ve got a few other blogs, but to be honest I’m not updating any of them very often - and like you it seems like I’m always writing comeback posts! I like the idea of setting a deadline though - I’m going to do that and see what happens I think!

    Tara: You’ve summed me up nicely I think - easily distracted with a short attention span! Perhaps it’s a common affliction among designers and I just never realised it before? ;)

    David: You’ve hit on the one thing that’s preventing me from simply pulling the plug: user interaction. Like you, I thoroughly enjoy the comments and emails from people who’ve read my posts.

  10. inspirationbit April 29, 2008 7:55 am
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    Happy Belated Birthday, Paul.

    hmm… I’m sure I commented here yesterday, but today I don’t see my comment and can’t recall if it showed up last night… perhaps it got caught by Akismet?

  11. MyAvatars 0.2

    Although it is a bit too late to wish you happy birthday, still like to convey my best wishes for you.

  12. Andrew Reynolds May 16, 2008 2:22 am
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    Congratulations on your first year of blogging.

    Just what you think is the right thing to do with your blog. As long you enjoy with you are doing, there’s nothing wrong with that. :)

  13. kristarella May 30, 2008 1:05 am
  14. Sam June 2, 2008 9:43 pm
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    Paul, coming to a crossroads with the blog is expected. You have a lot on your plate, your focus isn’t all there and your time is limited.

    I can say a couple things though, as feedback. First, you have a visually stunning website, so good work there - its probably served as inspiration to at least a few people who have happened upon it. And second, I wouldn’t discourage you from monetizing the website, just do it tastefully - as I’m sure you would.

    And by all means, if you do decide to end your run at it, put out an announcement first, I’m sure someone else would love to take over your website, perhaps myself!

    Thanks!
    Sam

  15. Amanda Vlahakis July 15, 2008 10:34 pm
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    I guess at the end of the day, other things in your life have become more important to you, and that’s no surprise.

    One other option to consider is that you don’t have to do ‘anything’ at all with blog.

    You can quite simply say goodbye and that is it…. and you don’t need to feel guilty about that either, if it becomes your decision.

    Again, there might be things more important to you right now, and no one would blame you for saying a quick goodbye :)

    Best of luck

    Amanda
    xx

  16. Internet Age July 22, 2008 11:17 am
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    Belated birthday wishes to you, Paul. I see you haven’t done any posts since this soul searching moment, but at the same time I implore you not to give up! All the best, and I am really looking forward to more from you!

  17. jimsoul July 27, 2008 8:57 am
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    Tumble it sir. Reduce the pressure for full content posts, mix up the media, streamline the methods you use to post to it and run from there. Take the pressure off it and just treat it like a wider aggregation of thoughts and knowledge, when you can manage.

    Doesn’t need to die, just needs to get out of the way of the original intent a little by the sounds of it. It’s not the blog that doesn’t work around your current workload and goals, possibly just the approach.

  18. MyAvatars 0.2

    Paul.. I love the design the way it is. It is very straightforward and elegant. The header adds some eyecandy and the rest is easily readable and easy on the eyes. I’m not a Brit, but congrats on Britster - I hope it brings you great success.. and… happy birthday!

    - Aaron

  19. simple things August 1, 2008 12:54 am
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    just got to know your blog from DP…

    nice Dear… happy birthday for you.

    God Blezz.

    ~math

  20. Internet Age August 1, 2008 4:47 pm
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    Come on, give us some more, please! You can’t let this all go to waste!

  21. Internet Age August 28, 2008 4:18 pm
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    Happy Birthday!

    Well I think since you are questioning whether to keep your blog or not, then you shouldn’t go the money route if you decide to keep it because it will put unnecessary pressure on you to keep posting even when you don’t feel like it. Just leave this as your creative and expression outlet and post whenever you feel like it, you don’t have to be consistant. Loyal readers will always be there whenever you you post something new, no matter how far apart from your previous post.

    So in short, I guess I’m advising you to keep it ;-)

  22. Eve August 31, 2008 3:48 pm
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    Another year older it seems.Happi Burfday Paul! Dont quit on blogging. You have alot loyal readers and i am one of them.

  23. Internet Age September 3, 2008 4:46 pm
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    Are you still partying your anniversary celebration? Because we haven’t received anything from you since this post.

  24. teo September 11, 2008 12:06 am
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    i’d like to say Happy Birthday and all best wishes. I am a new visitor and i really enjoy your posts. Being a new visitor, i didn’t know that you suffer from that ,but of course medicine is evolving fast, so i think you don’t have to worry. I will be watching all your posts as i subscribed to your blog.Once again best wishes and i hope you won’t retire

  25. Steve Brown September 12, 2008 9:23 pm
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    Hi Paul, this is my first visit here, and like so many others I am finding what you have to say of interest, to write a post in April and have visitors leaving comments through to September is quite something. Re continuing your blog, do what you enjoy doing if you feel this blog is steeling your time take a break, as I suspect you might have already.

  26. lazar September 29, 2008 9:09 pm
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    Hello Paul

    I imagine testing positive for HD is not something that happens everyday. If you consider keeping this blog to be hard, then quit. But after browsing this blog and another one of your projects, I can sau you do a great job so I suggest you keep it up. Again, it’s your call.

    Best of health!

  27. Johnny Mindlin November 29, 2008 12:06 pm
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    Paul,
    Your mobile’s off-line and you’re not replying to Emails. I know you have some health issues and I’m seriously worried as a friend.
    Please be in touch to let me know you’re OK.

    Guys - anyone know what’s happened to Paul? He and I used to work together, then we both left the same company and stayed friends. Paul hosts my website and manages my Email server etc. I’ve not heard from him in, oh, 6 months, now. Anyone with any information, please, please let me know.
    john@green-shoot.com

    Thanks

    Johnny

  28. office space December 6, 2008 12:12 am
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    Belated birthday wishes to you, Paul. I see you haven’t done any posts since this soul searching moment, but at the same time I implore you not to give up! All the best, and I am really looking forward to more from you!

  29. Las Vegas Guy January 5, 2009 12:20 am
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    Belated birthday wishes. I understand what you mean. Blogging can become a monkey on your back for sure. Have you ever thought about having a guest blogger from time to time? Its a win-win I think. You get fresh content and a new perspective, your guest gets exposure to a new audience.

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